And I’m Still Not Ready

The pressure is automatically on the moment you find out you're pregnant. Will I be a good mom? Is having a baby the best idea right now? How will my significant other feel? What will my parents say? Who's going to watch my baby when I go back to work? The questions never end, that's … Continue reading And I’m Still Not Ready

FINALLY MOVING FORWARD (Because Change Is Necessary)

I used to take it to heart when people would tell me I’m “too sensitive” or “too emotional”. It made me feel weak but as I got older, I realized it’s a good thing in more ways than one. One of those ways being you’ll never have to guess if something is or isn’t wrong … Continue reading FINALLY MOVING FORWARD (Because Change Is Necessary)

Once I Grow Distant…

I used to be so proud to say, “I’m here if you need me” but that has changed drastically within the last month. I wanted to be liked by everyone, I wanted to be the friend that everyone wanted/needed to turn to, I wanted people to treat me how I treat them, and I wanted … Continue reading Once I Grow Distant…

God Vs. The Procrastinator

  Are you one who doesn't exactly understand church, The Bible, or anything that has to do with God? That's me too so you're not alone. Yes, I believe in God however it ends there, literally. I've gone to church but it was the, "you're going to church with us if you're spending the night" … Continue reading God Vs. The Procrastinator

Dear Black Queen,

DON’T ALLOW ANYONE TO TELL YOU THAT YOU AIN’T BEAUTIFUL. Yeah, I said “ain’t”. You are beautiful inside and out and baby your melanin damn sure makes you shine. We’re taught that how we look has nothing to do with who we are, but what about when the way you look affects who you are? … Continue reading Dear Black Queen,

I Am Learning To NOT Take Everything To Heart

I asked someone close to me how they felt about something in particular. Of course it was about something I do. I didn't ask because I wanted to know it was more like a need to know. I'm the type that wants to know how you feel at all times. I DON'T WANT TO PLAY THE … Continue reading I Am Learning To NOT Take Everything To Heart

Whatever Keeps Her Quiet

I talk about a variety of things on my blog, but I find myself neglecting one …. MOTHERHOOD. For almost a year now I've been raising my children on my own. They are 2-years-old and 4 months, and the oldest gives me the hardest time. From trying to get her to eat to what she … Continue reading Whatever Keeps Her Quiet