And I’m Still Not Ready

The pressure is automatically on the moment you find out you're pregnant. Will I be a good mom? Is having a baby the best idea right now? How will my significant other feel? What will my parents say? Who's going to watch my baby when I go back to work? The questions never end, that's … Continue reading And I’m Still Not Ready

FINALLY MOVING FORWARD (Because Change Is Necessary)

I used to take it to heart when people would tell me I’m “too sensitive” or “too emotional”. It made me feel weak but as I got older, I realized it’s a good thing in more ways than one. One of those ways being you’ll never have to guess if something is or isn’t wrong … Continue reading FINALLY MOVING FORWARD (Because Change Is Necessary)

Do You Have A Plan?

Last night my girls and I – my friends not my daughters – were sitting in the car talking about our relationships. Out of the three of us, two of us are married. Of course, with us all being different people we shared different stories. It was interesting to hear everything from what we’ve struggled … Continue reading Do You Have A Plan?

Stay OUT The Middle

Many of us can be “the fixer” for others but not ourselves on any occasion. We find ourselves solving others issues, giving advice then later wondering, “Damn! Why can’t I help myself the way I help everybody else?”. It’s never that simple though, ever, but what about when fixing others issues creates conflict for you? … Continue reading Stay OUT The Middle

Why Didn’t They Teach Us About LOVE?

For a while now I’ve been sitting on these thoughts of what they - our parents or guardians - didn’t teach us. We’re taught manners, we’re taught the way of life or how to just get by (most of us), we’re taught right from wrong, but love *deep sigh* love is what they leave out. … Continue reading Why Didn’t They Teach Us About LOVE?

Once I Grow Distant…

I used to be so proud to say, “I’m here if you need me” but that has changed drastically within the last month. I wanted to be liked by everyone, I wanted to be the friend that everyone wanted/needed to turn to, I wanted people to treat me how I treat them, and I wanted … Continue reading Once I Grow Distant…