The pressure is automatically on the moment you find out you're pregnant. Will I be a good mom? Is having a baby the best idea right now? How will my significant other feel? What will my parents say? Who's going to watch my baby when I go back to work? The questions never end, that's … Continue reading And I’m Still Not Ready
People don't seem to understand this when you're not doing what they want and I'm learning it's not up to me to care more about them than I do myself. We ALL go through things where some of us can deal with people and others would rather not. People tend to NOT ask questions before … Continue reading Quote
I used to take it to heart when people would tell me I’m “too sensitive” or “too emotional”. It made me feel weak but as I got older, I realized it’s a good thing in more ways than one. One of those ways being you’ll never have to guess if something is or isn’t wrong … Continue reading FINALLY MOVING FORWARD (Because Change Is Necessary)
Most people notice a woman’s hair when she walks in a room before they notice anything else. They see length, color, texture, and some go so far as to try and touch it. Now imagine having short to no hair and all the stares and opinions people bring with them. That’s how I felt. It … Continue reading UNATTACHED
Last night my girls and I – my friends not my daughters – were sitting in the car talking about our relationships. Out of the three of us, two of us are married. Of course, with us all being different people we shared different stories. It was interesting to hear everything from what we’ve struggled … Continue reading Do You Have A Plan?
Many of us can be “the fixer” for others but not ourselves on any occasion. We find ourselves solving others issues, giving advice then later wondering, “Damn! Why can’t I help myself the way I help everybody else?”. It’s never that simple though, ever, but what about when fixing others issues creates conflict for you? … Continue reading Stay OUT The Middle
For a while now I’ve been sitting on these thoughts of what they - our parents or guardians - didn’t teach us. We’re taught manners, we’re taught the way of life or how to just get by (most of us), we’re taught right from wrong, but love *deep sigh* love is what they leave out. … Continue reading Why Didn’t They Teach Us About LOVE?