New Year, New You…. Again?

  First it was “New Year, New Me” and now it’s “This wasn’t my year”. I don’t know how many sayings need to be made, but maybe you need to do something different. No shade! All I’m saying is if at the end of every year you wrap it up with the same thing you […]

Guilt Giving

I am a guilt giver and it’s a habit that I should’ve grown out of like yesterday. I’m that person who spends money she doesn’t want to or worse, shouldn’t spend. I do this – most times – only because those who are on my “Don’t get them a gift” list long before Christmas gets […]

Dear Black Queen,

DON’T ALLOW ANYONE TO TELL YOU THAT YOU AIN’T BEAUTIFUL. Yeah, I said “ain’t”. You are beautiful inside and out and baby your melanin damn sure makes you shine. We’re taught that how we look has nothing to do with who we are, but what about when the way you look affects who you are? […]