New Year, New You…. Again?

  First it was “New Year, New Me” and now it’s “This wasn’t my year”. I don’t know how many sayings need to be made, but maybe you need to do something different. No shade! All I’m saying is if at the end of every year you wrap it up with the same thing you … Continue reading New Year, New You…. Again?

Guilt Giving

I am a guilt giver and it’s a habit that I should’ve grown out of like yesterday. I’m that person who spends money she doesn’t want to or worse, shouldn’t spend. I do this – most times – only because those who are on my “Don’t get them a gift” list long before Christmas gets … Continue reading Guilt Giving

Dear Black Queen,

DON’T ALLOW ANYONE TO TELL YOU THAT YOU AIN’T BEAUTIFUL. Yeah, I said “ain’t”. You are beautiful inside and out and baby your melanin damn sure makes you shine. We’re taught that how we look has nothing to do with who we are, but what about when the way you look affects who you are? … Continue reading Dear Black Queen,

The Power Of a Significant Other

Whether you were raised the same or not, some of us are truly blinded by the toxins of our families. Your significant other should make you a better person or at least make you want to become one and vice versa. They open your eyes to things you always felt were a problem but don’t … Continue reading The Power Of a Significant Other

You Will ALWAYS Be The Other Woman

Have you ever felt like there was another woman? I’m talking the feeling that no matter how hard you try to deny it, your intuition won’t allow you to feel otherwise? To the point that you’re sitting and thinking to yourself, “What am I going to do if it’s true?” The thought of it alone … Continue reading You Will ALWAYS Be The Other Woman