I Decided To Be What I’ve Been Looking For

I took my time with this one and I do mean took my time. It’s been a good three to four years and I said I wouldn’t do it because others have. Some of which I’ve been part of as well. The change of heart came from personal wants and needs. I’ve been looking for … Continue reading I Decided To Be What I’ve Been Looking For

I Get It, But I Don’t

I've been trying so hard not to give my opinion(s) on our current - everything with the coronavirus - but I can't take it anymore. Virus or no virus I don't understand what's so hard about understanding that people are going to do what they want no matter what they're told. I say that to … Continue reading I Get It, But I Don’t

The Importance of Apologizing, TO YOUR CHILDREN

There are so many parents who are upset when their - now adult - children say things like, “You could never live with me”, “It’s hard for me to be around you” and “You’re just unnecessary”. These are things they get upset about because they don’t and can’t see their toxic traits. All they ever … Continue reading The Importance of Apologizing, TO YOUR CHILDREN

Dear Black Queen,

DON’T ALLOW ANYONE TO TELL YOU THAT YOU AIN’T BEAUTIFUL. Yeah, I said “ain’t”. You are beautiful inside and out and baby your melanin damn sure makes you shine. We’re taught that how we look has nothing to do with who we are, but what about when the way you look affects who you are? … Continue reading Dear Black Queen,